If You Want to Be Truly Happy, Stop Worrying about These 10Things in Your Life
- Leyworld Company
- Apr 18, 2017
- 2 min read

If you want to move forward, there are always things you need to let go of first. It's a process that shouldn't happen just once a year. Taking stock should be an ongoing activity. To make sure you're moving in the direction you want, ask yourself regularly about your progress and see if there is anything that's holding you back.
Trying to be someone you're not. If you have to fake it, you're probably never going to make it. Aspire to become your best self by celebrating who you are and what you have to offer.
Trying to be someone you're not. If you have to fake it, you're probably never going to make it. Aspire to become your best self by celebrating who you are and what you have to offer.
Having to be right all the time. You're human, and humans make mistakes and don't know everything. It's OK to be wrong or not to know, and it's OK to say so.
Speaking badly about yourself. Sometimes we can be our own worst enemy. If you wouldn't let someone say it about your spouse or best friend, don't say it about yourself--even within your own head.
Negativity without positivity. If you keep thinking of the glass as half empty, you'll always be left wanting more. Develop a positive mindset, thought, and the impossible becomes possible.
The need for control. Sometimes you have to let go of control to allow what needs to happen to happen. Trying to control things that lie outside your power is a waste of time and a major source of unhappiness.
Blaming others. You alone are responsible for your own life and your own happiness. Blaming others isn't productive or helpful. What ever happened in your past, life is about moving on and finding your own happiness.
Regret lasts forever. Make it a rule to let go of regrets and never look back. Regret is a waste of energy that keeps you from moving forward and leaves nothing you can build on.
Depending on others for happiness. If you can't find happiness within yourself, you're not going to find it in anyone else.
Procrastination is a habit. If you wait to get it done, it will never happen. Procrastination is among the most damaging of habits.
If you want to be happy you have to find the things that make you unhappy.
By Lolly Daskal
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